Alex What have I done to make my adult daughter?
Part of the resentment both parents and difficult children feel is the unnatural influence we have on one another’s lives long past the time when that is appropriate. I should not feel responsible for my child, at this point. She should not feel responsible for me, until I am old and unable to care for myself.
Do You Put Your Daughter’s name on the deed?
“I want to make it easy for her when I die — just put my daughter’s name on the deed,” client after client insists. When we resist, they think we are acting too much like lawyers. There are no statistics out there, but we think that most of the time this arrangement works out just fine.
What did my father do to my daughter?
Some of the things he did were horrendous. On the occasions she did get upset, and refused to go to his home, he would buy her something or offer to take her on holiday, and being a child she always accepted his bribery.
When to let go of your adult daughter?
There comes a time when our parental roles are over, that role changes into something else. It sounds to me as if you may need some support in order to let go, to give your daughter the space she is needing. You can’t control her choices and to the degree that you allow them to impact you only causes suffering.
Can a parent give their son or daughter their home?
In other cases, parents might give an adult son or daughter their home because the offspring can’t qualify for a mortgage or maybe they want to reduce their own costs. In cases in which parents give adult children their already mortgaged homes, things become a bit trickier.
What can I give my Daughter to buy a house?
If your child can’t qualify for a mortgage to buy your already mortgaged home, consider cosigning. You may also be able to refinance your existing mortgage loan, add your daughter to it as co-borrower and become co-owners of your home. The IRS may scrutinize the the gift’s equity value.
What happens if you give your house to your children?
If you give your house to your children, the tax basis will be $150,000. If the children sell the house, they will have to pay capital gains taxes on the difference between $150,000 and the selling price. The only way for your children to avoid the taxes is for them to live in the house for at least two years before selling it.
Can You give Your House to another person?
A mortgage’s due-on-sale clause makes it difficult to give a mortgaged home to another person. Due-on-sale clauses allow mortgage lenders to call in their loans if the homes backing them are transferred to others. You may be able to add another person such as an adult daughter to your mortgaged home’s title, though.
Part of the resentment both parents and difficult children feel is the unnatural influence we have on one another’s lives long past the time when that is appropriate. I should not feel responsible for my child, at this point. She should not feel responsible for me, until I am old and unable to care for myself.
What have I done so wrong to make my adult daughter dislike me so much?
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There comes a time when our parental roles are over, that role changes into something else. It sounds to me as if you may need some support in order to let go, to give your daughter the space she is needing. You can’t control her choices and to the degree that you allow them to impact you only causes suffering.