Alex How do I convince my partner to move cities?
The best way to convince your spouse or partner to move is to talk openly about the move. Be completely honest with each other about your feelings, desires, worries, and fears.
When did my husband move to the east coast?
DEAR CAROLYN: Twelve years ago, my husband and I moved from my much-loved West Coast to the East Coast, where he was raised. His family lives about an hour from us.
When does one relocated spouse want to move back west?
By all means, sure, question and challenge your position in the light of your current conditions, including your kids’ needs and husband’s reservations — but if doing so brings you to the same conclusion of wanting to move back west, then respect yourself enough to see that as valid.
Why does my husband not want to move back?
My husband says he doesn’t want to move, there is too much at stake financially and the schools are better here for our kids — one in elementary and the other starting high school next year. He speaks to his parents occasionally but hardly ever to his siblings.
Is it possible for a woman to change her husband?
In most cases, women are generally satisfied with their husbands, and love them. But, they discover something that is far afield of what they know is right for their marriage, such as using dating sites. Other wives want more attention, or more conversation. The range of change is dependent on both the needs of the wife, and the circumstances.
What to do when you want to move to a new city?
Rent out your current home and move to your chosen city for a certain period of time. Give it about a two-year tryout, for example, and reassess the situation.
When did I tell my wife I wanted to move?
I told her before marriage that my plans for living there were short-term, and she said she had no problem moving with me when the time came. It’s now been two years later, and I am blessed with a job that will allow me transfer just about anywhere. Now she tells me that she doesn’t want to leave until her son graduates in six more years.
Why does my husband say we can’t move?
There’s no reason for us to stay. Yet when I suggest a move, my husband tells me that we can’t. The house is too new. We’d lose money if we tried to sell. “We can’t go anywhere for 10 years,” he says. “Ten years?” I cry. “I’ll never last that long.” I mope.