Alex Can a son-in-law cut out a daughter in law?
We are Christian people and want to love her. S. Answer: Dear S. She is cutting him out of the herd…taking “possession,” so to speak. It happens more often than most of us realize. I have never heard of a son-in-law doing the same thing, although it may happen.
Why does my daughter in law shun me?
The problem is that no matter what I seem to do, my daughter-in-law shuns me. She rarely speaks to me. If I speak to her she responds with one or two words. On a recent visit to their home, there were no sheets on our bed, no towels, and no toilet paper in the bathroom.
Why is my son so cold to my daughter-in-law?
Dear Never: Your son gave you the only answer you need, and an out: This is just the way his wife is. It’s not the answer you wanted — you want a warm relationship with your daughter-in-law (”Dilly”), understandably, and TP is nice, and so you were hoping to hear there was something concrete you were doing wrong and could therefore fix.
How long have I known my daughter-in-law?
Dear Carolyn: I have known my daughter-in-law for 14 years, but we have no relationship. We have never had an argument or even any unkind words between us. Their son, our only grandchild, is the apple of my eye and we have a wonderful time with him.
Who is the daughter in law who lies to her grandson?
Laura has a loving relationship with her grandson, but his mother lies to him and says Laura doesn’t call. *Sandy’s only grandson is 1 1/2 and she can count on one hand the amount of times she’s seen him. “Our daughter-in-law is becoming more standoffish to us and controlling of our time with our grandson,” she says.
Can a son and daughter-in-law be around too much?
Every grandparent is as different as every grandchild. And so is every parent. Some sons and daughters-in-law love for their parents to be around and involved in their kids lives. But some need space. Once again, the parents get to make the rules. Are you around too little or too much?
Dear Carolyn: I have known my daughter-in-law for 14 years, but we have no relationship. We have never had an argument or even any unkind words between us. Their son, our only grandchild, is the apple of my eye and we have a wonderful time with him.
How to deal with your daughter in law?
Talk to your son or daughter. Careful, though. Don’t just unload a litany of your daughter-in-law’s hateful traits. Instead, try to take an approach that is diplomatic and not critical. State the problem, and then request your preferred solution: